Are you stepping out into success?
Many of us think of applying the pressure as failing. ‘The pressure is coming. Oh my gosh! What
am I going to do? The pressure is coming.’ But pressure doesn’t need to be a negative: I love
this quote.
Pressure is a word that is misused in our vocabulary. When you start thinking of pressure, it’s
because you started to think of failure. Tommy Lasorda
When you stop and think about what happens in life, pressure is being applied constantly in
many different arenas. An example would be rush hour traffic that puts more and more pressure
on the highways. As the population grows more and more pressure is added. What happens? Do we,
as a society, give up and say ‘oh, well. Too Bad? It’s just going to take you that much longer
to transit into work’? Your commute time, instead of being an hour and a half, is going to be 2
hours. And in 3 years from now, it’s going to be 4 hours. Or do we take the action, as a
society, as a city, as a person and do something to relieve that pressure? Yes we do something
that will alleviate the pressure for all of that traffic coming into the downtown core.
We as a society, as a city, step into success. We do something to alleviate that pressure. We
can learn to apply that concept in our life. Instead of taking a look at the pressure as a bad
thing we can use it to build something new, a bridge to our future. Do we do what Tommy Lasorda
said-misuse that word ‘pressure’ and think of it as ‘oh, I’m going to fail, I’m going to fail’
and then give up? - or do we CHOOSE to do something different and step into our own success?
We all have habits. What is your ‘it’? What is the ‘it’ that stops you? When you start to feel
that pressure, what do you do? Next time that happens, I want you to stop and think, ‘what am I
automatically doing here’? Then decide to do something different in order to get a different
result.
When I was first introduced to this concept, I did not recognize what habit I fell into until I
was all the way in it. Stress eating was one of the things I used to do. As I learn to
recognize where that pressure point is, what my habit is, what my ‘it’ is, I, can learn how to
change it, how to react differently.
I just watched the movie ‘What the Bleep?! - Down the Rabbit Hole’. One of the concepts in the
movie is that we, as human beings, are bombarded every second with 400 billion bits of
information. We only process 2000, therefore we need to choose carefully which bits we pay
attention too. When we succumb to the pressure and fall into a negative habit, like I used to
when I was stress eating, we are selecting only a narrow negative portion of information from
the 4 billion bits..
I have decided that I am going to choose a different 2,000 bits of information. It really is
just a choice.. We need to recognize what our habits, and that we can change our habits.
Millions of people have learned how to stop the stress eating habit. Millions of people have
learned how to quit smoking. Millions and millions of people have learned how to make their
life and best home business to start better, how to step into
success. If they can do it, I can do it. If I can do it, you can do it. It’s all just a simple
choice, to make a different decision.
If you are a parent ask yourself, if you choose non-success habits, what are the habits and
passions that you are creating in your children? Are you creating a generational curse or a
generational legacy? Another great quote is “children have never been good at listening to
their elders. But they have never failed to imitate them”. by James Baldwin. Even if you aren’t
a parent what about the influence you have on the people around you?
We need to learn to recognize when we are backing off from pressure, when we are moving into
the habits that are not success habits (the ones that we need to change). We also need to
recognize the habits that we have that are good, that are leading us towards success, leading
us to our financial freedom. We need to be aware so that we can make changes in our negative
habits and reinforce our positive habits.
We need to learn to recognize that when we wish for something, ask for something, pray for
something or when we say affirmations for something, it’s not going to just happen. It’s not
going to be handed to us on a silver platter. One of my affirmations is “I am building a team
of dream achievers” Now, I know that that is going to take patience and perseverance and that
this whole team of dream achievers are not just going to be dumped in my lap. I have to go
looking for them and attract them into my life.
As I go down the personal development journey and build my best home
businesses from home I come up against pressure points all the time. When I think back to
the pressure points in my life last year at this time versus this year - whoa! - last year’s
ones seem really simple now. What happens? We are not given exactly what we want right off the
bat. But we are given the opportunity to develop the skills so that we get better. On my
journey, I am becoming a better team leader. I am practicing my patience and my perseverance in
my own learning so that I become that better learner that attracts, using the Law of Cause and
Effect, that team of dream achievers, the team of business builders.
When that pressure is applied in our lives, patience and perseverance, is what we need in order
to grow through that pressure point. Once we do grow and find different habits to allow us to
get past that pressure point, to allow us to develop the skills, to learn those new things that
we need to learn, we come to a better place and we can handle more pressure. We have new
skills. We know something different. We react in a different away. We remain patient. We
practice the perseverance and can step into success.
Are you applying enough pressure? Are you stepping out into success? Take a look at your
habits. What do you do when the pressure hits? Are you giving yourself the opportunity to
develop a new skill, to become even better than you already are? I would love to hear about
those experiences.. Send me an email at Carla at retirewithcarla.com or give me a phone call at
(778) 835-4032 and let me know, what are the habits that you’ve come across? What are some of
the things that you have done differently?
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